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A Curated Body of Work on Polygamy, Leadership, and Family Structure

Frameworks, diagnostics, and case studies drawn from real families using the F.R.A.M.E. Spectrum methodology.

Subsequent Wife in a First Wife World

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Being a subsequent wife is not without its challenges and I know that is hard for some to believe as we live in a society that believes...

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Polygyny Mistakes: Connecting with Bonus Children

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Being married with children can have it's benefits as well as it's challenges, right? Now think about children in a polygynynous family...

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Marriage, Polygyny & Abandonment Issues

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A variety of issues can arise when it comes to polygyny. One of them is feeling abandoned; feeling alone without your spouse. Many tim...

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Parenting in Polygyny: Prepping and Transitioning Children

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As marriage and polygyny coaches, we get asked a plethora of questions. As parents who are in polygyny, those questions increase. How d...

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Polygyny and Relationships: Interview with Eloheem Ali

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There are many questions that surround polygyny. How did your family react to polygyny? What interests you about polygyny? How did the...

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Do my Friends Like my Co-wife?

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There are many questions that branch from polygyny. Such as 'how do you keep your focus off of your spouse' or 'how to be cordial with...

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Do You Treat Your Co-wife Well?

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There's been countless times where co-wives find themselves in a unique set of circumstances. And that unique set of circumstances is ...

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Can You Change Your Spouse?

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Has there ever been a time, shoot, maybe multiple times, where you wished that your spouse was just a little different in some way? Hav...

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Shifting Your Focus Off Your Husband in Polygyny

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Often times I'm asked how I can handle communicating with my co-wife when we're married to the same man. Not only that, but another fr...

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The Effects of The Lies We Were Told: Books Before Boys Because...

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As I watched and listened to countless women, especially black women speak on how hard it is to find a "man of value" or a "high value ...

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