Salaam/Peace, Coach Nazir here.

In the realm of relationships, polygyny is a unique journey that demands a distinct set of values, disciplines, and commitments. It's a path that challenges the traditional perceptions of love and partnership, asking us to grow beyond societal expectations and embrace a broader, more inclusive understanding of family. For those of us who choose this way of life, the journey is filled with profound moments of connection, learning, and personal growth. However, ...

Salaam/Peace!

Question, should co-wife find a common ground together to create a sisterhood connection? I had to ask myself the same question. I discovered something along the way while practicing self-discovery, I found sisterhood to be an important topic to discuss in the world of women in polygamy. 

Sisterhood in polygamy is not just a nice-to-have; a co-wife might be a trusted confidant. When women share the same husband, the relationship between them can either be a source of incred...

Marriage is a journey of discovery, growth, and deep connection. It is a partnership where communication and understanding are the bedrock of a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

Yet, even in the most solid marriages, there can come a time when new dynamics or possibilities arise—dynamics that challenge the status quo and require a deeper level of conversation and introspection.

One such dynamic is the possibility of polygyny, the practice of a man having more than one wife. This conce...

Lessons from Malcolm X and the Role of Polygamy

In the discussion around why men step out of their marriages, Malcolm X's insights are particularly revealing. He observed that domineering, complaining, and demanding wives could push their husbands to seek solace outside their marriages.

This behavior, which he described as "psychologically castrating" their husbands, often led men to seek validation and satisfaction elsewhere, sometimes even from prostitutes. Malcolm X’s words offer a de...

Salaam/Peace everyone, it’s Coach Nyla.

Today, I want to share some reflections on why I chose polygyny and address some common questions and misconceptions. Polygyny is often misunderstood, and I hope my insights can shed some light on its beauty and benefits.

When people ask me why I would want to marry an already married man or choose polygyny, my first knee-jerk reaction is to say, "Because I wanted to!", and "I’m grown." But there's much more to it.

After being married before an...

Practical Living Arrangements in Polygyny

Welcome back! In Part 1, we talked about managing jealousy in a polygynous marriage. Today, I want to address another common question: How do living arrangements work in polygyny? Specifically, should everyone live in the same house or have separate homes? Let’s dive into what works for our family and why.

In our situation, we’ve found that having separate homes works best. My co-wife and I live in different houses, but thankfully, they’re only a 5-minut...

The results from our recent Women's Polygamy Readiness Assessment shed light on the Emotional IQ category, revealing that a majority of participants scored themselves as Not the Best when it comes to managing emotions and handling tough situations.

This is a crucial aspect to consider, especially in the context of a polygynous relationship where emotions can run high and conflicts may arise.

It is essential for individuals to be able to stay positive and motivated during tough times, ha...

Salaam/Peace, it’s Coach Fatimah here.

In this blog post, I want to tackle a question that comes up often in discussions about polygyny: How do you handle and manage jealousy?

Jealousy is a natural emotion that everyone experiences, but it’s especially relevant in polygynous marriages. I’ll share my personal experiences and insights on managing jealousy in a healthy and constructive way.

 Understanding Your Unique Relationship

First and foremost, I focus on the unique bond my hus...

Part 3: Overcoming Common Challenges in Polygyny

Welcome back to our series on the true essence of polygyny. In the previous parts, we explored the deeper aspects of polygyny and practical tips for managing a polygynous household. Today, we’ll tackle some common challenges faced in polygyny and offer strategies for overcoming them. Let’s dive in.

Dealing with External Judgment

One of the significant challenges in polygyny is dealing with external judgment. Society often views polygyn...