One of the major challenges between wives in polygyny is the compare and compete game. There seems to be some unwritten code that states that because you are married to the same man you must be competitors. Competing and comparing can tend to bring out more insecurity than growth. Have you heard the saying, "Comparison is the thief of joy"? While that can be true, we can also use comparisons in an empowering way if we choose to.
I created a video that explains that in a lot more detail. I also give three (3) important strategies to not allow comparisons rob you of the confidence and beauty that is within you and that gives you the power to be fulfilled in your life and relationships. Especially your marriage. Check out the video on YouTube clicking this hyperlink. See you there! 💎~ Coach Nyla
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