Establishing Family Traditions for a Better Family

Salaam/Peace, 

Years ago I learned a philosophy that has served my family and I well. That philosophy is summed up in 3 words: 'Faith, Family, Finances'. This has served me by reminding me of priorities and things of which I must be aware. [Click here to watch Video]

I don't come from a privileged background where my family environment was mainly encouraging and nurturing, it was quite the opposite. Experiencing this as a boy caused me to form some rather strong ideas of what I'd like my...

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Leadership and Polygyny... Why it's Vital for Marriage Success

 Salaam/Peace, 

When I speak with brothers, more often than not, I get asked, "if there was one things you'd suggest, just one, that would help me in my marriage(s), what would it be?" I usually answer with the same answer and reply, "increase your leadership skills." View the video here and let me know your thoughts.

Now it's not the same increase your iman (faith), learn patience, or focus on your wife's needs advice that they hear often. Though all 3 of those are important,...

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Why I, after being happily married for 15 years, married an additional wife

Salaamu alaykum/Peace, 

The topic of polygyny is one that generates lots of emotion no matter what side of the fence you are on. The absolute most frequent question I get is, "why would a married man want to marry another wife?" I answer the question as best as I can in the video

There are many myths about why a man would want to marry again and there are just as many conspiracies. Fact is, men, like women, are not a monolith so there are a plethora of reasons. We understand...

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