Disclaimer: This post is for those who need to hear it. If it doesn’t apply to you? No worries, carry on in peace. 

Now, for those still here… Ready for a WORD?

Let’s be brutally honest: Your jealousy isn’t protecting your marriage, it’s killing it.

 You claim to believe in polygyny. You talk a big game about submission, sisterhood, and faith, until your husband actually considers another wife. Then? The meltdowns start. The manipulation. The ultimatums. The tears.  Does every woman displa...

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Take a moment and think about this:  

If a woman claims she supports polygyny but reacts with outrage, manipulation, or threats when her husband considers taking another wife, does she truly respect the institution, or is she prioritizing her own comfort over the principles she claims to uphold?  

This isn’t about guilt or blame, it’s about honesty. And honesty demands we ask: Why are subsequent wives so often villainized when they should be honored?  

The Hypocrisy ...

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