Polygyny & the Comparison Trap: Why "Who Has It Worse?" Is a Losing Game

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This article speaks to women navigating polygyny who may need encouragement. If this doesn't resonate with your experience, we're truly happy for you - every relationship journey is unique and valuable in its own way.

This is for the women ready to face reality…Let’s talk TRUTH

The Silent War: When Wives Keep Score and Everyone Loses

Aisha sits in her room, counting the hours since Malik last spent...

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Take a moment and think about this:  

If a woman claims she supports polygyny but reacts with outrage, manipulation, or threats when her husband considers taking another wife, does she truly respect the institution, or is she prioritizing her own comfort over the principles she claims to uphold?  

This isn’t about guilt or blame, it’s about honesty. And honesty demands we ask: Why are subsequent wives so often villainized when they should be honored?  

The Hypocrisy ...

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The Reality of Polygyny

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Salaam/Peace Readers! Let's dive into co-parenting in polygyny!

Co-parenting in polygyny has its ups and downs, but it’s also one of the most rewarding journeys for everyone involved. At the core of it, we’re talking about creating a family dynamic that’s rich in love, respect, and genuine connection—a home where all children, whether biological or bonus, feel seen, valued, and safe. And yes, it takes intentionality, understanding, and a willingness to step into each other's shoes.

For thos...

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Are you feeling the love today? Or are you feeling obligated to stay in a relationship that just doesn't give you that warm, fuzzy feeling anymore? Well, you're in the right place because I'm here to share some wisdom on the topic!

First off, let's talk about the difference between a marriage of love and support versus one of obligation. It's simple really - in a marriage of love and support, you and your partner are there for each other through thick and thin because you genuine...