The word "matriarch" often conjures images of quiet strength and wisdom, but for many first wives, it becomes a dangerous synonym for manager or even boss. This fundamental misunderstanding, confusing a cherished role with absolute authority, is a common pitfall. When a husband decides to expand his family, this mistaken belief in seniority often surfaces, creating instant poison in the home.

The conflict began with quiet firmness. Musa’s voice was unmistakable: He didn't ask for Zayna's per...

Disclaimer: This post is for those who need to hear it. If it doesn’t apply to you? No worries, carry on in peace. 

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Let’s be brutally honest: Your jealousy isn’t protecting your marriage, it’s killing it.

 You claim to believe in polygyny. You talk a big game about submission, sisterhood, and faith, until your husband actually considers another wife. Then? The meltdowns start. The manipulation. The ultimatums. The tears.  Does every woman displa...

Salaam/peace!

Are you feeling the love today? Or are you feeling obligated to stay in a relationship that just doesn't give you that warm, fuzzy feeling anymore? Well, you're in the right place because I'm here to share some wisdom on the topic!

First off, let's talk about the difference between a marriage of love and support versus one of obligation. It's simple really - in a marriage of love and support, you and your partner are there for each other through thick and thin because you genuine...