Four Weeks of Live Work With Coach Nyla

Women’s Polygamy Bootcamp LIVE with Coach Nyla

Four weeks to work on the reactions, communication, assumptions and emotional patterns that can make polygyny harder than it needs to be.

Join the Bootcamp
Live training • Worksheets • Exercises • Q&A
Experience
4 Weeks Live
Each Session
2 Hours
Support
Live Q&A
Application
Worksheets + Exercises
You May Recognize This

You know what you want to do differently.

But knowing and doing are not always the same thing.

It can be easy to understand something when you are calm. The challenge is accessing that understanding when the situation is yours and the emotion is real.

  • You replay a conversation long after it has ended.
  • You know you are making an assumption, but your mind keeps running with it anyway.
  • You have something important to say, but you are not sure how to say it without the conversation going left.
  • You compare even when you know comparison is draining you.
  • You react quickly and later realize you could have handled the situation differently.
  • You stay quiet when something actually needs to be addressed.
  • You are doing well overall, but certain situations still bring out a version of you that you would like to change.
This Is Where We Do the Work

For Four Weeks, We’re Going to Work on You.

Not because every problem is yours.

Because your reactions, choices, communication and emotional habits are the parts you actually have the power to develop.

Your reactions
What happens inside you when something catches you off guard, and what do you tend to do next?
Your communication
How do you express what matters without allowing emotion, assumptions or poor timing to take over the conversation?
Your assumptions
What is fact, what is interpretation, and what story has your mind created in the space between the two?
Your patterns
What do you repeatedly do when you feel rejected, insecure, angry, afraid, jealous or uncertain?
Your center
How do you return to yourself so one difficult moment does not get to dictate the rest of your day or your marriage?
There will be teaching, but I don't want you collecting another stack of notes you never look at again.

We're going to work.
What We Are Building

More Options When Real Life Happens

The difference is not that difficult moments suddenly stop. The difference is that you become better equipped to meet them.

01

Greater emotional awareness

Learn to recognize what is happening inside you before your reaction makes the decision for you.

02

Cleaner communication

Approach necessary conversations with greater clarity, steadiness and intention.

03

Less unnecessary emotional energy

Notice when assumptions, comparison or overthinking are consuming more of you than the situation deserves.

04

Stronger recovery

Develop the ability to regain your footing after difficult moments instead of remaining emotionally stuck.

05

More mature choices

Increase the space between what you feel and what you decide to do with what you feel.

06

A stronger sense of self

Become less dependent on comparison, reassurance or another person's behavior to determine how grounded you feel.

The 5 Cs

Five Areas We’ll Strengthen Together

These five areas help us slow situations down, understand what is happening, and make more intentional choices.

01
Consciousness
Becoming aware of what you are feeling, thinking, assuming and doing before the pattern takes over.
02
Courage
Developing the willingness to face what is actually happening instead of avoiding, hiding from or distorting it.
03
Communication
Learning how to express what needs to be expressed with greater clarity, timing and emotional discipline.
04
Connection
Protecting meaningful relationships without abandoning yourself, manipulating closeness or allowing fear to run them.
05
Centeredness
Strengthening your ability to return to yourself when life, marriage or emotion knocks you off balance.
Your Bootcamp Experience

Four Weeks of Teaching and Application

This is designed to give you space to learn, apply, ask questions and begin working with the concepts in your actual life.

01

Weekly Live Training

Four live sessions with approximately two hours of focused training each week.

02

Live Q&A

Bring your questions and get help thinking through the situations you are navigating.

03

Worksheets

Structured pages that help you move beyond listening and examine your own experiences.

04

Practical Exercises

Opportunities to apply what you are learning instead of leaving the material in your notebook.

Your Coach
Coach Nyla

This Work Has to Meet You in Real Life

Sometimes what we need isn't more information about polygyny. We need an opportunity to actually work through how we're experiencing it.

There are personalities involved. Expectations. History. Children. Schedules. Intimacy. Communication. Different relationships developing at different speeds.

There can be a lot happening at once.

Inside this Bootcamp, we'll slow some of that down together so you can look at your situations more clearly, understand your patterns and begin making different choices where different choices are needed.

Women’s Polygamy Bootcamp LIVE

You Don't Need More Information Sitting in a Notebook.

You need opportunities to practice seeing situations differently, communicating differently and responding differently while you are becoming more aware of your own patterns.

That is what these four weeks are for.
Enrollment
$1,997
Four weeks live with Coach Nyla
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Come as you are. Bring your questions. Bring the situations you're trying to make sense of.
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