About Outstanding Personal Relationships

The Outstanding Personal Relationships Family is made up of Coaches Nyla, Nazir, and Fatimah. Coaches Nazir & Fatimah were married for 15 years before Nazir chose to marry Coach Nyla and practice polygyny 11 years ago.

Marriage, whether monogamous or polygynous requires commitment, continuous effort, love, patience, and growth in order for it to be fulfilling and joyful. Coaches Nazir and Fatimah decided when we married 26 years ago that we wanted to raise a strong family. That decision led them to choose to research and implement what it took to be the best in our marriage and parenting.

The more we were intentional, the more mentors, coaches, and successful elders showed up in our lives. Coach Nazir focused on leadership development and entrepreneurship while Coach Fatimah focused on art, interior design and mothering which helped us become more intentional in growing our young family.

Fast forward 15 years into the marriage, Coach Nazir chose to expand his family by marrying Coach Nyla which is when the polygynous journey began. As rewarding as it is now, it started out rocky like many polygynous unions. We had to overcome numerous challenges without much support because there were far too few resources. There were many lessons learned and things got ugly before it was pretty.

With patience and focused personal growth work, we made a decision to find out what it takes to win at polygyny for the sake of everyone in the family and chose to DO THE WORK. We are grateful to have overcome so many obstacles in order to experience a level of joy and fulfillment in our marriages many only imagine.

Our family is blended and includes a dozen children. Coach Nazir & Fatimah have seven children together while Coach Nazir and Nyla have three together plus two bonus children from Nyla's previous marriage and relationship. 

A lifelong commitment to being the best we can be has led all three of us to focus on what it takes to elevate. We understood that we must invest heavily in self-education and training. We have spent tens of thousands of dollars studying with teachers such as Brendon Burchard, Tony Robbins, John C. Maxwell, Jack Canfield, Marci Schimoff, Ilanya Vanzant, Les Brown, Brian Tracy, Robert Kiyosaki, Daniel Amen, Frank Kern, Tim Grover, and many others.

Our self-education includes numerous seminars, workshops, high performance coaching, multiple certifications, all of which has allowed us to conduct high impact events and coaching online and offline worldwide. 

We are practicing Muslims and follow the Islamic guidelines and principles in our lives. As Muslims who share how to successfully practice polygyny, we address people on their own personal journeys even when their faith or spiritual walk is different. They are honored to have students from all walks of life and faiths including but not limited to;

  • Muslims
  • Hebrew Israelites
  • Mormons
  • Christians
  • African Spiritualists
  • Jews
  • Those with no religious affiliation

They have published two books and their book, Let's Talk Polygyny Uncensored is due for release late 2021. Their trainings have reached over 250,000 people on polygyny, parenting, relationship development, business strategies, mindfulness, and health and wellness.

Cowives Coaches Fatimah & Nyla

The results achieved on such a rewarding journey is now culminating in the mission to empower their students who desire to have more fulfilling relationships and live lives at a higher level whether single, practicing monogamy, polygyny, or simply preparing to have healthy marriages. 

Remember a WISH changes NOTHING but a DECISION changes EVERYTHING!


Your coaches,

Coaches Nyla, Nazir, & Fatimah

Founders of Outstanding Personal Relationships

Authors of Let's Talk Polygyny: UNCENSORED


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