The Outstanding Personal Relationships Family is made up of Coaches Nyla, Nazir, and Fatimah. Coaches Nazir & Fatimah were married for 15 years before Nazir chose to marry Coach Nyla and practice polygyny 11 years ago.
Marriage, whether monogamous or polygynous requires commitment, continuous effort, love, patience, and growth in order for it to be fulfilling and blissful. Coaches Nazir and Fatimah decided when they married 26 years ago that they wanted to raise a strong family. That decision led them to choose to study what it took to be the best in their marriage and other important relationships.
Many mentors entered their lives due to their study of entrepreneurship and personal development. Coach Nazir focused on leadership development and Coach Fatimah focused on art, interior design and mothering which helped them become proactive in growing a young family.
Fast forward 15 years into the marriage, Coach Nazir chose to expand his family by marrying Coach Nyla and that is when polygyny entered the picture. As rewarding and cohesive as it is now, it started out rocky like many polygynous unions. We had to overcome numerous challenges. There were many lessons learned and things got ugly before it was pretty.
All coaches chose to dig in and commit to success and do the work it took to succeed. With patience and focused personal growth work, they made a decision to find out what it takes to win at polygyny for the sake of everyone in the family. By doing this, they overcame many obstacles in order to become more and experience a level of marriage fulfillment people only imagine.
Their family is blended and includes a dozen children. Coach Nazir & Fatimah have seven children together while Coach Nazir and Nyla have three together plus two bonus children from Nyla's previous marriage and relationship.
A lifelong commitment to being the best they can be has led all three to focus on what it takes to elevate which has led them to invest heavily in self-education and training. Combined, they have spent tens of thousands of dollars studying with teachers such as Brendon Burchard, Tony Robbins, John C. Maxwell, Jack Canfield, Marci Schimoff, Ilanya Vanzant, Les Brown, Brian Tracy, Robert Kiyosaki, Daniel Amen, Frank Kern, and many others.
Their education includes but isn't limited to numerous seminars, workshops, high performance coaching, multiple certifications, all of which has allowed them to conduct high impact events worldwide both online and offline.
They are practicing Muslims and follow the Islamic guidelines and principles for their marriages and their lives. As Muslims who share how to successfully practice polygyny, they address people on their own personal journeys even when their faith or spiritual walk is different. They are honored to have students from all walks of life and faiths including but not limited to;
They have published two books and their book, Let's Talk Polygyny Uncensored is due for release early 2021. They have trained thousands of people on polygyny, parenting, relationship development, business strategies, mindfulness, and health and wellness.
Cowives Fatimah & Nyla
The results achieved on such a rewarding journey is now culminating in the mission to empower their students who desire to have more fulfilling relationships and live lives at a higher level whether practicing monogamy, polygyny, or simply preparing to have a healthy marriage when the time permits.
Remember a WISH changes NOTHING but a DECISION changes EVERYTHING!
Coaches Nyla, Nazir, & Fatimah